Hey Reader,
I gotta quick one today, but it’s a gooooodddd, so make sure you save this email, okay!
So, here's something I see all the time: a woman finally starts using AI to move faster… and then quietly hates everything it writes. It's "fine." It's grammatically perfect. And it also sounds absolutely nothing like her.
Then she spends the next 20 minutes rewriting the whole thing anyway, wondering what the point of using AI even was.
But here’s what nobody tells you:
AI doesn’t sound generic because it’s bad.
It sounds generic because you never taught it you.
Out of the box, AI is writing from the average of the internet.
The average caption.
The average sales page.
The average “Hey friend, I’m so excited to announce…” launch post.
The average coach voice.
The average expert tone.
The average everything.
And average is not what builds a memorable brand.
Your job is to pull AI toward your voice — your rhythm, your phrases, your stories, your humor, your standards, your point of view, and the way you actually talk to a friend over coffee when you are not trying to sound “professional” for the internet.
And the best part?
You do not have to keep correcting it from scratch every single time.
You can teach it your voice once, and use that as the foundation for your captions, emails, offers, content, sales pages, and whatever else you want AI to help you create.
So here’s the exact prompt you can use today. Paste it into ChatGPT or Claude, feed it a few samples of your real writing, and watch what happens:
I want you to learn my brand voice so everything we create together sounds like ME — not generic AI.
Below I'm pasting a few samples of my real writing (captions, emails, texts, even voice-note transcripts — anything that genuinely sounds like me).
Study them and build me a quick Brand Voice profile that captures:
1. Brand Personality — 3 to 5 words that describe my vibe
(e.g. warm, bold, soulful, direct)
2. Tone of Voice — how I actually speak to my audience
3. Signature Phrases & Language — the specific words and phrases I use a lot
4. Words to Use vs. Words to Avoid — what sounds like me, and what never would
5. My Writing Style — how I open, how I close, and my sentence rhythm
Then apply this Brand Voice profile to everything I ask you to write from here on. Before we start, show it to me so I can confirm it sounds like me.
[Paste 3–5 writing samples here]
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That's it. Run it once, then ask yourself, “Does this sound like me?”
If yes, save it.
If no, correct it.
Tell it what felt too formal, too fluffy, too soft, too corporate, too hypey, too stiff, too bland, or too far away from your actual personality.
Because that is the part most people skip.
They expect AI to magically know their voice, then get mad when it sounds like everyone else.
But AI is not a mind reader.
It's a mirror.
And the better the input, the better the reflection.
This is how you stop getting content that sounds like “robot-in-a-blazer” and start getting drafts that actually feel like you.
Because here’s my whole philosophy on this, sis:
AI runs the machine.
You remain the message.
The tool is supposed to sound more like you over time, not less.
And when you teach it your voice, your content starts moving faster without losing the thing that makes people trust you, remember you, and want to buy from you.
Want to go a level deeper?
This prompt gives you a quick Brand Voice profile — but your voice is just one section of your full brand. Your personality, your story, your positioning, your visuals, the whole way you show up online all shape how AI represents you.
That's exactly what HER AI Brand Book is built to be: the single source of truth for your entire brand, that you fill out once and upload, so every prompt, caption, and offer you create with AI comes out clearer, stronger, and unmistakably you.
It's $67, and it quietly makes every prompt I ever send you work better.
Get HER AI Brand Book → here.
xoxo,
Andrea Bolder
Mom + AI Monetization Mentor
P.S. The doors to HER AI Insider are now open. If little moves like this are your thing, that's the whole vibe inside — the prompts, playbooks, and behind-the-scenes systems I don't post anywhere else.
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